I said I would put this post up for a couple people who have requested help on what to do and when to do it effectively. This being said I will introduce a buddy system that will require me and 1-2 others to play with me and work together for 3 different gaming sessions lasting longer than 1+ hours each. This will help you see how others play and learn what you may or may not be doing wrong. I will also show you when to transition yourself in an engagement. So get a hold of me and I will try and work with you one at a time
